A Friendly Advice

Assalamualaikum and hi,

"You are wrong!". Do you like reading that? Do you like to even hear that? Yes, I hate it too. In our teenage life we often see other people mistakes. Because we are not kids anymore. We start to think further. To know the bad and good of people. But, in stating our opinion about what's wrong or what's right, we need a better approach. A one that is much relaxing and acceptable.

I admit, it takes guts to tell people they are wrong. But it's worth it. At least they know. Rather than your friends living in a place with fake people giving fake smile around him/her.

One of my favourite way is to wait for other people make the same bad attitude as him/her. Yes, it takes coincidence to happen. Then ask him/her whether it is wrong or right.

If they say it's wrong, tell them to think whether they have done it before. They'll trap themselves. Because in the first place they said it was wrong.

But if they say it was right, ask them "why?". So you'll get a better understanding. And in some cases, you are the one who was wrong after all. Yes, that's life. We made mistakes we didn't even realized. Don't worry, we are still in the learning phase of life. Still a long road to explore though.

There you go, a simple yet useful way to give people advice. An advice doesn't have to be so direct. It may hurt your friend. And you'll blame yourself after that. What's the point?

Start looking for mistakes now (seems bad but whatever) :)

Bye.